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Turning Bullies into Buddies: A Quick, Powerful and Fun Way to Teach Kids How to Stop Being Victims
By: Izzy Kalman
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In response to the rash of tragic school shootings, epitomized by the massacre at Columbine, schools throughout the country are implementing anti-bullying programs. These expensive, time-consuming programs require intensified effort and vigilance on the part of teachers, students and parents and, ironically, often lead to an increase in bullying! To make matters worse, the anti-bullying programs unwittingly weaken kids emotionally by teaching them to think and act like victims.

If you work with schools or children, this may be the most important seminar you ever encounter. It will challenge your basic assumptions about children's aggression and even about yourself! The practical tools you will acquire will multiply your value to the schools and children you serve. You will learn how to turn kids from losers into winners in as little as one week. (The same principles also work with adult bullying!)

Why are the popular anti-bullying initiatives so ineffective? Because they violate the Golden Rule, The First Amendment and the teachings of all major religions as well as secular ethical systems. While modern social scientists are trying to figure out how to combat the problems of teasing and bullying, they are rejecting the solutions that have been with us since civilization began. Izzy Kalman has developed simple, powerful techniques that make the wisdom of the ages come alive - techniques that teach victims how to solve their problems without anyone else’s help and without getting anyone in trouble - while restoring their natural sense of humor. Whether your hero is Freud, Skinner, Albert Ellis, the Buddha, Jesus, Moses or Mohammed, you should love this seminar.

  • The Problems With The Prevalent Anti-Bullying Approach
  • A Short Course In Morality
  • Understanding Bullies And Victims
  • Using Role-Playing To Teach Victims
  • How To Work With Bullies
  • Understanding Humor
  • Teaching Adults
  • When These Approaches Don't Work
  • How adults unwittingly cause most of the fighting between children
  • The "optical illusion" that causes kids to become victims of relentless teasing and bullying
  • Why the anti-bully movement is ineffective and does more harm than good
  • Why the psychological field of bully research is fundamentally biased
  • How to counsel teachers to effortlessly reduce fighting between students
  • How to teach kids to stop being victims and to turn their bullies into buddies
  • Marriage and Family Therapists
  • Counselors
  • Case Managers
  • Clergy
  • Educators
  • Psychologists
  • Social Workers
  • Nurses
  • Guidance Counselors
  • All counseling and educational staff who work with children will greatly benefit from this innovative seminar
ISRAEL C. KALMAN, M.S., is a nationally renowned instructor in anger control, bullying and relationship problems. He has a knack for seeing simple things that escape most people, and for coming up with simple solutions to seemingly intractable problems. Over two decades ago, he developed a fun yet powerful one-session technique for teaching anger control to both children and adults. He is the author and creator of the website Bullies2Buddies.com, which offers free online manuals that have been helping people throughout the world solve their bullying-related problems. He is also the author of a book for youth, Bullies to Buddies: How to turn your enemies into friends, a manual for teachers and parents called A Revolutionary Guide to Reducing Aggression Between Children, an audio CD program, How to Stop Being Teased and Bullied Without Really Trying, a whole-school bullying-reduction program (actually, a victim-reduction program), Victim-Proof Your School, and a soon-to-be-released DVD for workplace bullying called Turning Workplace Hostility into Harmony. Mr. Kalman has appeared on national television as an expert on bullying, spoken at numerous professional conferences in the U.S. and abroad and created a Staten Island Community TV series, Help, They're Driving Me Crazy.

After earning a Bachelor of Science degree in psychology at CCNY in New York in 1974 and a Master of Science degree in clinical psychology at Hahnemann University in Philadelphia in 1978, Mr. Kalman worked as a school psychologist and psychotherapist in Israel and then in New York City. During the past eight years, he has devoted himself full time to educating mental health professionals and educators. He is a Nationally Certified School Psychologist, as well as a member of the International School Psychology Association, the New York State Association of School Psychologists, the Richmond County Psychological Association, and the International Society for Research on Aggression.

"The speaker was excellent and role-play technique of teaching was very valuable. I have not learned so much new information in a seminar in a long time." - Rhonda D’Imperio, Ph.D., Nashville, TN

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